| I get by with a little help from my friends
By Rich Fisher
This is day 112 of my diet adventure and it is a journey that has been
helped along with a little help from my friends.
One of the things that I have learned (by paying closer attention) is
that sometimes the best-laid plans
Take for example my visit to the doctor, my first follow-up since my
initial pre-diet checkup. It turns out that docs, on occasion, get vacations just like the
rest of us. In fact, they allow their staffs to take vacations from time to time. Which is
a "round about way" of saying that my scheduled appointment was changed and so
although I promised all kinds of number comparisons, youll have to hold your breath
for a couple more weeks.
Actually, I was sort of looking forward to stepping on the scales and
hearing Dr. Miguel Topalov exclaim, "Wow, youve lost a lot of weight!"
So, if you should see him before I do, you just might give him a
"heads-up" as to how he should respond. Just a thought.
Increasing support
The best thing with making progress in this weight-loss adventure is
the increasing level of support, testimonials and assistance.
I have heard from a number of people, many on the Dr. Atkins diet, with
outstanding stories of success. Since they didnt say I could identify them,
Ill use only first names. Take for example Gary. Gary has lost over 65 pounds since
last August and is now on the maintenance portion of the Dr. Atkins diet plan. Thats
where he can resume eating a more standard diet but by measuring his weight carefully and
consistently he is able to determine the amount of carbohydrate grams (and sugar grams) he
can consume and not gain weight. If he adds a pound or two, he knows to back off the
carbohydrates.
Then there is Mary Ellen. She has lost 63 pounds on Weight Watchers and
looks and feels great. Her husband thinks so, too!
"I think," Mary Ellen said at lunch last week, "that
there exists a connection between those of us who have experienced success in losing
weight in an effort such as this." Shes right.
Diet inspiration
I also heard from Bob. Bob, too, is on the Atkins diet. He started on
it about two months after I started on it. He is down 14 or 15 pounds. I wanted to ask if
reading about my experiences inspired him, but I didnt.
And then there is Amanda. Amanda read about my losing 60 pounds in 60
days on a previous diet when I was much younger and exercised a couple of hours a day. She
said she didnt care how boring that diet might be, she wants her pounds "to fly
away!" She noted that she likes this diet that Im now following but she needs
"fast results for a two-piece."
Well, Amanda, the first thing I would like you to know is that I have
no personal knowledge of losing weight in order to fit into a two-piece! (Lets get
that bit of business out of the way right off).
Losing too fast
But losing weight too fast is generally not a good thing. Thats
why Im allowing a full year to get to my target weight. One of the reasons is that I
want to be able to tone as I go. The other is to establish some new, long-lasting
lifestyles and eating habits so that the weight stays off.
Ive said it before but here it is again: Losing weight is like
falling off a log, all you have to do is become committed to your task. It takes a
specific amount of time. You start a diet. You stick to it. You lose the desired weight, a
beginning and an end. Keeping the weight off is a task that has a beginning but not an
end. Keeping excess weight off, by its very nature, is for the rest of your life. That
takes changing your lifestyle and habits. Establishing a new lifestyle that you can stay
with will generally take longer than any quick weight-loss approach allows.
Ive also gotten support from people who are not on weight-loss
diets. Remember all those food days I mentioned a few weeks back. Well, we still have them
in equal abundance, and we still get a lot of desserts and high-carbohydrate entries, but
we seem to be getting a lot more protein entries as well.
Sensitive to needs
And then there are community endeavors and organizations that I am
involved with that are increasingly sensitive to the needs of dieters. Take for instance
Leadership Sidney, a nine-month program through the Sidney-Shelby County Chamber of
Commerce designed to foster community leadership through training and education. We meet
in a variety of business, industry and government locations during our programs each
month. A variety of lunches have been served, some of which I could enjoy parts of but
rarely much of the whole meal. That is except when we met at Wilson Memorial Hospital. It
was as though they had planned a lunch especially for me, except I skipped the dessert.
Its not the first time that Wilson Memorial Hospital has come
through, either. The first Thursday each month the Sidney Toastmasters meet in one of the
hospitals conference rooms. While members pay for their own lunch, we have a
specific lunch brought into us from the dietary staff. Knowing that I am on this diet, the
outstanding folks in that dietary department have made sure I have a special lunch that
meets my diet objectives.
Diet conversation
Ive gotten increasing support at Kiwanis meetings, too. Just last
week, I sat a table with my co-worker and friend Mark Kaufman along with our pianist Paul
Sarver, song-leader Tom Faulkner, and fellow members Phil Freytag and Tom Judy. Much of
the conversation was about dieting.
I also got suspenders from our president, Ralph Bornhorst, a candy bar
from Dave Bemus (a Snickers bar since my column had made him snicker). All of which
generated a lot of 25-cent fines that our treasurer, Ray Weber, gets to count.
Like I said, I get along on this diet with a little help from my friends.
I just hope that a 25-cent fine for being mentioned here doesnt result in their
refusing to sit with me at this weeks Kiwanis meeting. |